STEAL back YOUR joy !!!

Often in life we allow others to steal our joy . We allow them to piss us off and take away the happiness we woke up with . It can be your friend , family member , a stranger in the next car . We give them the power to mess up our day and control our emotions . 

Lets try a different approach - 

When we feed into someones negative energy we become apart of it . We allow them to throw their energy balls at as and we catch them instead of dodging them . My little sister is dealing with this right now . She is very positive and is a hippie at heart . She deals with someone on a constant  who throws negative energy at her but she keeps catching it . 7 am this morning she caught the energy ball . Finally , I prayed on it and responded to her situation with the best advice I feel would help her . Here it goes ....

I said " Natalie , stop feeding into her energy . Stop allowing her to steal your joy every single day . You cannot argue with crazy , crazy will make you feel crazy ! Don't give this person anymore power . When they say something to try and shake your peace of mind , bite your tongue and smile . Sometimes people want to start drama because that is their normal . Don't EVER let ANYONE control your emotions . Keep your energy positive around you . Misery loves company sis , never forget that . Let your light shine so bright you reveal their true colors  " 

I hope that whoever is reading this never lets anyone steal there joy . Someone is rude to you , steals your parking spot , spreads rumors , says hurtful words , learn to not feed into their energy any longer. When you respond to people like this , its like adding fuel to fire . Energy is very powerful so make sure your positive energy over shadows their negative energy .

Peace & Blessings

Xox0- Fee La Tour  

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Do everything from your SOUL ...

          Operate from your soul and watch people become instantly inspired ...

Your soul is who you are . It is something that you wear on the inside of your body that keeps your body operating . Without your soul , you are not you, you are not alive . It lives forever and can never die , pretty impressive if you ask me .

 At the age of 23 I've done some really amazing things with my life thus far !  I would've never thought I would be where I am now . I realize that prayer and having this amazing thought process helped me manifest my dreams into reality. Along my life journey , I've come to realize that if I don't do things from my soul , it just doesn't work . The energy isn't transfered properly . The people won't feel me .  

I only know how to be me . I can be myself in several different emotional moods but when it comes to me sharing my positivity and enlightenment with my " Love Lights " I can only do it from my soul . The journey to finding out who I was and recognizing the difference between my soul and flesh wasn't an easy one by any means . 

I didn't always operate from my soul . I was a negative Nancy , very judgemental , and was operating from an egotistic stand point day in , day out . The moment I recognized my soul I began to live a life I could only dream of at one point . The key was finding out who Felicia really was behind the flesh . 

These days , I cannot operate if it isn't from the soul . I have no words to produce or projects if it doesn't come from the soul . I keep my mouth closed until my soul speaks threw me and we make masterpieces together . I remain still and in patience until my " ahhh ha !" moment comes. If I don't do my souls purpose I am unfulfilled and unhappy . Thats not the life I like to live or teach people . 

With all of that being said , make sure you are doing what makes you happy ! Don't try and please everyone else or try and do what everyone else " thinks " you should do . You came on this earth with a purpose that is placed inside of your heart and only you know what that is . Of course get advice from people when necessary but make your own decisions , always ! For the longest time I couldn't make my own decisions and drove myself and probably everyone around me crazy. Just decide :) Take life one day at a time and hope for the best . God / the universe has your back . With that mindset I promise you will feel unstoppable !!!

Peace & Blessings to all my LoveLights 

XoXo- Fee La Tour

#FeeLove 

Channel Your Energy Properly

One thing I want to say  before I get into this topic is , I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE AND EXPERIENCE ONLY .  I have to constantly practice what I speak as well as look for new ways to grow as a better human being every day . That comes with discipline and the willingness to learn regularly . When you do things from your soul , they don't just happen over night . You have to listen very carefully to your spirit as well as your gut intuition . That brings me to my next point .  

Channeling your energy properly - 

When I began my journey of  consciousness , I was very very afraid and confused . I one day woke up , and just began to isolate myself . I had no idea why I was isolating myself and what the purpose was . Now , 23 years young and looking at my life it all makes sense . It isn't easy to trust , ecspecially as a human being . We question everything ,  all the time ! Its just in our nature . So , of course , questions ran through my mind such as " am I doing the right thing ?" or " My friends aren't doing what I am doing , why am I the odd ball out ?" At the time I wasn't spiritually mature enough to recieve the answer to that question . 

My very first lesson was to channel my energy properly . That meant for me to go into isolation , which  consisted of ; working full time , no friend hang out time , reading , writing , and creating art . I disconnected from social media and I hibernated because I knew I was going through this for a reason . Questioning my every move , I learned to keep my faith alive and just trust . 

Fast foreword to my life today . I am healthy , happy , blessed in more ways I could ever imagine. I had to learn to channel my energy into my own journey . I learned very quickly that looking to the left or right of me would make me fall down . We all have our own purpose in life and we all have to practice discipline to figure out that purpose . Your soul will naturally lead you to where you are suppose to go ONLY if you're willing to allow it to . Our ego seems to get in the way the majority of the time . It is our job , to recognize the ego ( your flesh ) and tell it to simply " have a seat !" 

With all of that being said , I stepped into my purpose by channeling my energy properly . I stopped feeding things that didn't need to be fed . I also had to let a lot of friends go that were no longer serving a purpose in my life ( this is a VERY  hard part of the journey , test crucial part. ) . I still respected all with the understanding that everyone is on their own path and I cannot judge their footsteps . I am here to tell you do NOT be afraid of isolation ! You are one with God and being able to tap into that is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me . You learn so much about yourself as well as other people . Life seems to be a lot easier because you are spiritually in tune with the creator and learn to listen to the voice of our higher self as well as God . 

Trust your journey . Have patience , a lot of it . Don't let circumstances keep you down , they are only there to teach you something . Be as strong as you can , and when you feel like giving up , knell down and pray . 

Peace & Blessings 

XoXo- Fee La Tour 

Terrible pregnancy skin !!

        ( Pregnancy skin & non pregnancy skin regimen ) 

When in my first trimester of pregnancy , my skin went CRAZY ! I freaked out with it , which only made it worse :( I hand break outs all over and was very embarrassed to be in public . I've never experienced acne or anything of that nature so I was sad lol . First my body is gaining weight and going through changes , next I am hormonal and emotional , last but not least my skin is bugging out ! What do I do !? 

                                 Lovin my new skin :) 

The answer for myself was to say " this is only temporary , you are creating a human . This is normal . " I began to drink lots of water through out the day and also decided to switch over to all organic face products . I switched over for two reasons , one being that I didn't want products with a bunch of chemicals being transferred to my baby . The second reason was I didn't want to make my skin even WORSE with all that extras clogging my pores . Not only did I have to switch my skin care but I also had to switch my makeup . I knew liquid makeup wasn't going to cut it any longer . 

The products that got my face back to normal are listed below , keep in mind these products are ORGANIC , these products are also for sensitive skin . WATER is a necessity not only for you baby but also for you to stay looking fresh and fly through this pregnancy :) 

African Black Soap : I purchased this from Whole Foods in the beauty dept. I got this for many different reason . The first being that it is organic , but I also wanted something that would help me with dark spots after picking at my face . Me not being use to having breakouts I picked a lot but I heard this stuff helps with that and it did . I indulge night & day with lukewarm water . 

Juice Beauty Green Apple Peel Sensitive Skin : I also purchased this from Whole Foods . This stuff is amazing for dark spots as well as rejuvenating your skin and keeping  it nice and firm . It is a GREAT cleanse and keeps my face nice and smooth . I only do this once a week due to me not wanting to mess with my skin too much but to keep it nice and fresh of course !

OLEHENRIKSEN Sheer Transformation moisturizer : OMG ! This product is the bomb.com I bought this product from the spa and I can't rave about it more than I am about to . Like I said I was picking at my face and began to notice ugly dark marks . I freaked and ended up getting treated to a facial at this place . SOOOOO relaxing & amazing ! I got a deep cleaning which also included a peel like the one listed above as well as exfoliation process which is amazing . I asked him about getting rid of dark spots and he guided me to this product . I have been using it for only 2 weeks and my skin is already clear and back to normal . No dark spots!! :) 

All of these products helped me so much in the process of my skin calming down and I am very gentle with it .  My makeup had to change as well , below you will see the new compact I use . I've never been a compact powder type of girl but this is my new thanggggg 

PUR 4- in- 1 Mineral foundation w/ skincare : My mom has been telling me for years to try this product but I was so against powder foundation . As soon as I got pregnant I knew that I needed to make a change . I headed over to Sephora and the lady went straight to the PUR department . I am OBSESSED with this foundation . Its light , fresh , has great coverage , and is so much better for your skin than liquid. I will stick with this foundation even after I deliver for sureeeee !

I hope all this information helps ! Good luck on your journey 

XoXo- Fee La Tour 

Belly Buds Product Review :)

Baby & Fee is a new edition to the FeeLove Blog . You will be seeing tips for soon to be mommies like myself . I will be sharing my journey with balancing my career as well as becoming a mother .

My first baby product review are the Belly Buds !!  These things are super cool ! You can play your growing baby audio from voice recordings , books , and music . They say your baby starts learning in the womb so why not start now ? I received these little gems in the mail and I am addicted ! I hope my baby is loving them as much as I am ! I want her to be advance , well equipped , while enjoying her " growing party " in my belly . When running errands or working , I can play her some music and she can jam out . I thought this invention was really cool ! I also really like the fact that they aren't like headphones wrapped round my belly and no matter how big I get , she can still get her tunes played to her while mommy is comfy .

I am excited to share this part of my journey . It is a big step for me to share because it is very close to my heart but I figured I can inspire young moms like myself to have fun with it and keep dream chasing while still being an amazing mother :) 

Enjoy ! Peace & Blessings

                                                                                                        Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

Sugar coat for what ?

 I use to have a problem with speaking my mind for a very long time . Scared of what others would think I would hold in how I felt very often . Recently , I am around people who speak their mind and say to the left with " sugar coating " reality . I would always try and be considerate of others feelings without thinking about my own . Thats when I had it backwards. You don't have to be rude but you do have to think about your happiness when always being the " yes man ." Why do we put other peoples feelings above our own ? In life we must use the term "balance " more than ever . If you can't do something than say so . If you don't agree with something just say so . Don't sugar coat anything for anyone . You have to do what makes you happy . Be real , ALWAYS . Stand for what you believe in and remember to always stay respectful .

Xoxo - Fee La Tour

#FeeLove #PositiveVibesOnly 

You are all the Power You Need -

Growing up my mom was a single parent of 3 and always wanted the best for us .  She worked more than we could ever imagine and provided by herself . I grew up in Stockton , California which is about 30 minutes away from Sacramento . My family is from the bay area so we would go there every weekend and visit our " second home ." When High school came around my mom had us pack up and move to a city that could offer us a better education and open our minds , Ripon ,CA. Right after high school , literally 3 weeks after high school I decided I was packing my bags and moving to LA . I was 17 years old but was fearless and determined . Being in Los Angeles now for 7 years I have been exposed to a world that I never knew existed . A world of dreams , A world of hope . I've done almost everything I've ever dreamed of as a child and more . I've set goals so high for myself that I reached them and didn't know what to do after besides set bigger ones that I'm on my journey towards now . I have / had my struggling moments but I always told myself " this too shall pass. " I recently spoke to a friend back in Stockton . I was shocked but what I was hearing because I forgot about the little girl who felt like there was nothing outside of the poverty and helplessness of this city . I had to tell him my back story and having faith in all that I do . You have to take leaps of faith to get what you want out of life .  We are such powerful beings but are scared of our power most of the time ! Open your mind and realize you have all the power that you need in this lifetime . You were born with every single thing inside of you , to fulfill whatever it is in your heart . Every human is equal , only difference is one believes in themselves and the other watches through the window . 

Rule #1 - BELIEVE 

Rule #2- WORK HARD

Rule #3- HAVE FAITH 

These are the three things I keep in my heart on a daily to push me through life and its struggles . I don't let anything stop me ! Ever ! I recognize my power can get me anything and anywhere I want to be in life with patience and perseverance . Don't be afraid , only good can happen if you believe that . We are all in this together .

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour

Get to Know Fee a little deeper -

Welcome ! 

The Video below is about me in my environment  as a makeup artist , model , motivational speaker , TV personality , and it all sums up to the person I stand as today . This video explains my logic on things in life as well as my vision .  I get to show people who Felicia is and my mission for people . This is a piece of my journey I am sharing with you , handle with care .

Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

Thank you to everyone who took part in this video !

This video is about Felicia La Tour and getting to know her a little closer . Makeup artist , actress , motivator is here to share her positive outlook on life and help those around her open their mind. She recently started her YouTube channel " Makeup & Positivity With Fee La Tour " which helps her share her positivity threw her art work . Felicia has a blog which is Fee-Love.Com that talks about daily struggles and how to handle it . A young woman with a dream and striving to reach people around the global with her positive energy . Watch this video and see the message as well as a little bit of Fee BTS and watch her energy speak to you ! Fee-Love.Com FeliciaLaTour.Com YouTube.com/FeliciaLaTour Instagram.com/FeliciaLaTour This video was shot and edited by Disney Hall

Makeup With Fee La Tour

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Being In Tune With Yourself -

I've been through a really interesting journey this far in my life . I am really young but have been through enough to say I can understand spirituality , the universe and my creator . With that being said , the best part of life I believe is growing . Ahh scary sometimes right ? It is , I can't lie . Scary is a good thing and scary is also an illusion your mind creates because of the unknown fact of " whats going to happen ." Being led in the dark is nerve wrecking , or is it ? Is this something we are creating ourselves in our own minds ? Yep , we are creating it just like we do everything else . For a second just realize where you are in this present moment . Accept it for what it is. Realize that you are exactly where you need to be at this moment in time of your life . Don't let your thoughts take you to a place of  " lack of . " Be so intune with yourself that you are comfortable with the present moment . Don't forget , it is a present because it is the now . Let your spirit be free and tell your ego to take a seat . The ego likes to be controling aka " the bully ." The spirit is the sweet one that should be leading you . As humans we don't allow the spirit to take control because we live in a society where it is the opposite . Free yourself and be happy ! Today ! Its your choice . Always was and always will be!  Get in tune and live your freedom ! 

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

Growing at ease ...

We all have to grow in life , with that being said we all have to have certain lessons thrown at us . These lessons help us get to where it is we need to go . I recently came across some old photos of myself and was amazed at the way I carried myself as well as the way I spoke . Negative & classless . To see the person I have become today is amazing to me but it took me to having to bring up old memories to see that growth . I am spiritually mature enough to know that I was spiritually growing . Yes my physical body was growing but my spirit was at a serious war . Every day we are at war . Everyday we are growing more and more into a beautiful butterfly . Let the transition take its course . If you are willing to have God take control of your life , indeed the universe will work with you and help you with that transition . Keep in mind , IT TAKES TIME! I went through a 3 year relationship and looking back I can finally see that my Ex was my preparation for the woman I am today ! Its a beautiful thing . I remember sitting and talking to my girlfriends about how I felt it was time for me to leave my relationship because I've learned everything God wanted me to learn from this person. Now in the moment did I know I was going through a big transition ? Of course not . This person was preparing me for battle , the battle was me growing into my higher self . This is a very very difficult thing to overcome . I began to look at the world differently , I began to strengthen my gift of discernment ( Thank you GOD! ) With all of this being said , I want to tell anyone who is going through something to HOLD ON TIGHT and just know that you are probably going through a huge  growth process . Just trust that God is creating situations that will teach you a lesson which will make you a very strong person at the end of it all. Looking back at my life thus far I see exactly why I went through the things I did . Cliche but it made me the person I am today . Be a warrior and nothing less ! Trust your journey , trust your struggle , embrace every moment and live for RIGHT NOW !

Peace & Blessings

Xoxo- Fee La Tour

Vitamins everyday keep the doctor away -

A daily vitamin for women is so necessary !! Some of us don't get enough nutrients in our diet to keep up with our health . Our bodies need several different things for our hair , skin and nails to grow & glow  . Keep in mind that if the inside of your body is in good shape , the outside will be fantastic ! You can't fix the outside without fixing the inside. This is something to keep in mind with everything in life ! Just like you can't create a positive environment with a negative mind set . Work on the inside and the outside will come together ! These are the vitamins that I take daily . I began to take this after noticing my diet was lacking in certain departments. This helps me stay on point with my necessary nutrition intake and I feel good when I keep up with it . I have way more energy and I feel pretty :) who doesn't want to feel pretty lol !!! .

Enjoy and let me know what you think !!

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour

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Learn to Calm Your Mind ….

Alrighty, so idk about you but for me I use to always have these moments when my mind would just run wild . Out of control and filled with negative thoughts of failure , lack of , and doubt . Slowly but surely I began to gain control . It wasn't easy but I knew I had to gain control of my mind so that my world around me would change . I began to read several books on what happens when I let my mind go into a negative state .  I was freaked OUT ! I was creating madness in my life with all of these thoughts. As they say I was " blocking my own blessings " . I was my own worst enemy . I wasn't loving myself and was beating myself up mentally . Life isn't meant to be miserable and unhappy all the time , but that was the life I was choosing. I have a few things I do to keep my mind positive through out the day. I listened to motivational speakers , Played Reggae music ( all positive and full of life / hope ) , I would go on a walk ,  pray for peace of mind, and stay productive in things I enjoyed doing . I didn't want to live in my thoughts 24/7 . I was tired and drained . Tired of worrying, tired of creating my own madness. The best thing I did was take that first step . The first one is the hardest because doubt tries to come and rob you and has you back at square one all over again . I conquered my mind , I mastered the way to use my brain and its power . Without your mind on the right track you can not manifest things and be happy . It is your mind power that creates your world around you .  The first step into thinking positive is to check yourself. Recognize when you're speaking negative , recognize when you're feeling anything less than happy. Talk to yourself , put yourself in check and hold yourself  accountable ! Forgive yourself for beating yourself up  most of all. Keep doing this until it is second nature for you to be positive. Everyday is another day to try your hardest . You begin to manifest happiness all the time, and start to embrace yourself a lot more . We all want to be happy , we all want to be loved . You are not as " different " as you think. Yes you are unique but trust me , it starts with self discpline. Its the ones that actually take action into doing , that manifest their heaven on earth.

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Felicia La Tour

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Enjoy Life's Journey ...

In life we tend to over think everythingggggg. Maybe not all of us, but a large amount of us . I've learned through experience that the story is already written . We can't control anything but our thoughts and choices throughout the  day . We're always wondering what the future holds and living in fear of  " whats next " . So caught up in the future that you're missing the beauty in the present moment . Its a simple task of " Let Go , Let God" (whoever you label as your higher power, to each is own ) . I remember trying to live a spirtual lifestyle as well as trying to follow the layout of society . Over time I realized that following faith and my heart was the best decision for me. Never knowing where my next meal or pay check was going to come from, went from scary to exciting. I learned that when I "Let Go and Let God " I was truly living . I was simply "being" and appreciating the present moment. Taking each lesson and learning process as a blessing. They are tools to put in our back pocket while walking through life. Just trust your heart, Listen to it very carefully because it won't steer you wrong. ENJOY this journey because you only get to do it once. Go hard for what you believe in every day and don't let others opinion on you shake you . Like they say , " you're created to stand out. " Do you Boo , ALWAYS !

                                                               PEACE & BLESSINGS

                                                                 Xoxo- Fee La Tour